When you come through the door, she
is a burst
of smiles sunny afternoons giggle glitter
and deepdeep eyes deepdeep dimples
that radiate
from her
starchy
crinkled gown
She is 10
you see
the feeding tube snaking into her nose
the iv that breaks into the skin of her wrist
the twist of her fists in her sheets
But don’t feel too much just listen
because she’s trying to tell you a story
about the day she was sent to the principal’s office
for yelling at a boy who was copying her answers
a dumb boy who
(obviously)
liked her
The nurse breezes in and you
are startled but she
keeps going
she never complains
about the
chemotherapy she just
keeps going
This is not uncommon
You remind yourself
This situation?
Not so rare
Most Marshallese
can say they’ve mastered the language of cancer
Bianca doesn’t know much English
and yet she knows
what blood cells means
what bone marrow, catheter
and remission therapy means
You think about this as you stare at Bianca
Rainbows of beads budding across blanket
But today you and Bianca will not
be discussing the effects of nuclear testing
Or colonization
Or the cancers that shadow your people
Instead you will discuss the contours
Of Spongebob
You will construct paper card castles
Craft the best pudding and ketchup stew
Kaleidoscope colors across her nails
Use her blanket for a sail
You won’t talk about her aches
her untouched plate
the sunrays she can no longer seek
the funeral that chokes your dreams
and when visiting hours are over it’s
not easy
its harder than you’d think
The nuzzled kiss
The frumpled tight tight hug
The cross your heart pinky promise
You’ll be back
Yes you promise
You promise and promise her
You will
be back
And as you leave
the door clicks shut behind you
and suddenly
its harder to breathe
Monica says
Thanks for sharing. This made me cry.
Kathy/Dedz says
Thank you so much for your kind words Monica.
Tracy Rounds says
very brave little girl! this was very touching! you’re truly talented Kathy. all my prayers go out to this brave lil’girl with lots of IAKWE!